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Posted September 27, 2012
Harper leaps life’s troubles to star at Prairie

CEDAR RAPIDS – It’s the centerpiece of his recruiting video. It’d be the centerpiece of anyone’s recruiting video.

Demetrius Harper fielded a kickoff in a Week 2 football game against Cedar Rapids Kennedy in late August. Unable to find room in the center of the field, he spun in a full circle.

After a second in-vain attempt at penetrating the middle, he spun again. Finally the Cedar Rapids Prairie senior wide receiver found daylight down the sideline and sprinted away from defenders for a touchdown that had to be seen to be believed.

“Twenty eight,” Harper said, when asked how many times he has watched a replay of the magical return. “I didn’t realize how many times I actually went in a circle.”

Funny how sports imitate life. That kickoff return really is Demetrius Harper.

He’s had to circle sometimes in his 17 years but somehow has found his way.

“He’s got a personality that can light up a room,” Prairie Athletics Director Rocky Bennett said. “He is an absolutely amazing kid to talk to one-on-one.”

“You know, for him to get to the point where he’s at now,” Prairie football coach Mike Morrissey said. “That’s a positive.”

More than you know. Things never have been easy for Demetrius Harper.

He was born in Little Rock, Ark., to a mother who was 16. He lived with his father for nine years but moved with his mom (on his 10th birthday) to Cedar Rapids, where she had family.

“We wanted a better life,” Maggie Cross said.

Cross regularly worked two full-time jobs to try and support herself and her son. Demetrius was left at home alone a lot of the time.

As a stranger in a strange city, he sometimes acted out in school and found trouble. He was expelled from McKinley Middle School in Cedar Rapids as a seventh-grader, which led mom to sit him down and lay it all out.

Your life can go this direction or that direction, she told him. There always has been some head-butting between the two because they have alike personalities, but this time, son listened to mom.

“He hasn’t had any problems like that since,” she said. “Some of the people he grew up with quit school, have gotten into trouble. Some are in jail. For him to take the path he has is a blessing, really.”

Harper has a lot of people to thank for that. He transferred into the Prairie school district and found friends and sports (football, basketball and track). Not only is he a terrific football player, he’s a multiple Drake Relays champion.

His teachers, coaches and others began looking out for him. There’s a long, long list there.

“A village raising a child is a great phrase to use in this case,” Bennett said.

Bennett is definitely on the “list.” People like Prairie basketball coach James Moses and Nick Proud, Harper’s middle-school principal, are there, too.

Toward the very top is Kenyon Murray. The former Iowa Hawkeyes basketball player was Harper’s hoops coach as a freshman.

“Words can’t describe what Kenyon has meant to him,” Bennett said.

The two have developed a special bond, even though they didn’t exactly hit it off immediately.

“He didn’t like me,” Murray said. “He thought I was a jerk. He kept looking at his feet when he would talk to me, and I told him he had to respect people enough to look them in the eye when speaking to them. He laughs about it now, but he really did think I was a jerk.”

Murray quickly became a mentor for Harper, whose stepfather is serving time in prison. Cross has two other young sons: Kamel 4 and Wafiq 2. Life isn’t easy.

“It’s been a struggle,” she said.

Harper lived with the family of good friend Tom Frieden last year, but Frieden graduated, so Murray asked Cross over the summer if she minded if he moved in with him and his wife, Michelle, this school year.

The Murrays already have 12-year-old twin sons and a 6-year-old daughter, so this was definitely making a commitment.

“There was never a question of ‘Should we do this?,’” Murray said. “It was more ‘How would it work?’”

How it has worked is terrifically, according to everyone. Harper can just be a typical teenager, has a family he can sit down and eat supper with every night and people he can open up to about his feelings and frustrations.

Polite, quick with a smile, well-spoken and pleasant to talk to, he always has kept some things bottled up.

“Sometimes it’s been tough, not being around my brothers and my mom a lot,” Harper said. “But she wanted what was best for me, and what was best for me was to go live with the Murrays. It’s worked out for the best.”

Kenyon Murray has stressed academics with Harper, setting him up with tutors and other help in order to strengthen his grades and allow him to get a good score on the ACT. College football definitely is in his future.

Iowa has shown interest, Harper said, as has Division II Upper Iowa. Morrissey (a UIU grad) took him to a game in Fayette last weekend on a pseudo-recruiting visit.

“I’m just looking to see where I get the (best) scholarship,” Harper said.

Cross said it has always been her dream to see her son go to college. She’s proud of the hurdles he has jumped in life and the young man he has become.

“He could have gone a million different ways,” she said.

Actually, everyone at Prairie is proud of the young man Demetrius Harper has become.

“I know he had to grow up pretty fast,” Proud said. “To see where he is at now … He has become a very polished young man. We’re proud of him.”

Cedar Rapids Prairie's DeMetrius Harper leaps over Iowa City West defenders as he runs toward the end zone during the second half of their game against Iowa City West at West High School on Friday, Sept. 14, 2012, in Iowa City, Iowa. Iowa City West won, 58-27. (Jim Slosiarek/The Gazette-KCRG)

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